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Ep. 85: The New Uncoupling. Divorce Old Breakup Ways Eury w Kara on the Gift of Conscious Separation

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Eve Eurydice speaks with Kara Baruzzini, a Conscious event leader, who teaches Human Connection & the intuitive yoga on the perks of Not Suffering. Emotional language is what we call the language of instinct. When we are unconscious, we let it tell the story we’ve heard or watched in the past enacte
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Eve Eurydice speaks with Kara Baruzzini, a Conscious event leader, who teaches Human Connection & the intuitive yoga on the perks of Not Suffering. Emotional language is what we call the language of instinct. When we are unconscious, we let it tell the story we’ve heard or watched in the past enacted by others to our brain. But our Emotion can be rewritten. We can repeat the language we have seen our families use or we can create our own language. Love is a leap of faith. Separation is a leap of faith too. A leap of faith comes from our hearts. It is a process of our heart as well to accept and process and support the ending or the completion of a relationship as another version of our empowerment. Scars incl psychic scars and ancestral traumas are the vocabulary of therapy and they imply illness. Breakups are normal. 50% of marriages 60% of second marriages 70% of third marriages ‘fail.’ Practically speaking, the system has lied to our brains. Our brains expect relationship success must be everlasting. Rather than seasonal and cyclical. Nature goes through the annual season of beginning & ending, of birth & death & then rebirth. So do humans in nature. The darkness is nurturing. Hearts don’t break. The ego the identity breaks. That’s what hurts. It’s not humanly possible to sustain one couple per lifetime without outside enforcement, legal requirement, and authoritarian control. We have evolved legally, socially, morally, but not emotionally. We still speak in terms of the inherited drama modeled for us by TV & movies, by our ancestors & peers. The weight of our cultural inheritance pulls us in the direction of pain, the narrative of recrimination & victimization & revenge. We as individuals & as a society must rewrite the narrative of love & celebrate the courage that it takes to move on. We must resist the mass weight of the past. We must take up the work of resisting the pull of the previous millennia in order to hear our own new voice. We complete the relationship. We journal. We open healthy space. We hold emotion containers to be sad or angry in. We create an altar in nature. We Build ritual around our agency to fortify it. We exchange completion & consolation words. We hold a business meeting. We agree on how we will behave next. We find what we are grateful for. We give affirmations & thanks. There is no love greater than the strength to say goodbye. The new you is not the old you. The Patriarchy is Old Earth. On the other side of all that, the Feminine is Rising. Find her at https://karaBaruzzini.com @karamakingwaves @speaksexpodcast For more on Speak Sex, go to https://Speaksexpodcast.com https://www.facebook.com/Speaksexpodcast For totes, books, art go to https://Eurydice.net. ⚡️ on Apple, subscribe to https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/speak-sex-with-eve/id1448261953 ⚡️For video, subscribe to https://YouTube.com/SpeakSexwithEveEurydice

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