Coming out story in Iran
Publish Date: Mar 18, 2021
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d growing up in Iran. How did that influence your ability to fully accept your own sexuality? Um, it's I didn't know I was gay. I in Iran, basically, there is no gay you. You do what you do. And just then you marry a woman and hide your life. So I didn't I realized I was gay, or I didn't realize I can have a good life that I have now. So I'm very grateful until I moved here. And then it took me a couple of years to accept myself and find people around me that they loved me and allowed me to be who I am. So it was definitely a process. Yeah. I mean, it just seems like on the outside looking like if you're outside or you would see someone you have all this money, you're you're you're successful. But people don't really think about the story and the journey that it takes to that. What's the thing that you've learned the most about yourself throughout your journey? You I learned that you can find family, um, through your friends and you growing up. I just thought your mom your dad on Grandmother, they are the ones who have to accept you. And then it was a period that I learned. It's about me accepting myself and then find others that they become like a family. I was very lonely for a long time, um, hiding, not trusting anyone thinking something is wrong with me. And, um, I put a lot of energy and thought towards making a career out of it. But throughout the process, I missed a lot of relationships. So it took me a while to accept myself. And it's funny when I accepted myself after 21 years, Uh, I was 21 years old and I was expecting my mom to love me between 20 minutes and, of course she really and in Middle Eastern culture