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Porn Star Coralyn Jewel speaks on swinger life

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Coralyn Jewel gives us insight into the interesting life of swingers.
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to read my book, It's a short read. It's 100 and 38 pages and then I encourage people to go to the hanky panky podcast page and read the blogs because there are things, well, there are couples out there that, for example, there are couples that have been married 18 years and they are completely fine letting their partner go do what's called a hall pass and they're okay with saying friday night, you go out on a date with somebody, I'll go out on a date with somebody and then we come back and tell each other our naughty stories. I think that that is playing with fire. I think that you are opening up the door to having an emotional connection with that other person. And again, you know, everybody is entitled to make their own choices and everybody is entitled to experience as they want to experience. But I always caution people that you as a couple are in this lifestyle as a couple to, to enhance your excitement and your fantasies together. And so for me, um, you know, if I'm wanting to play with another person and my partners with me, I want to hold his hand. I want him to be on the bed. I want them to be involved in touching me as well. I don't want to know that he's left to another room or, and that's ultimately what happened with my husband is that we didn't, we got involved in the lifestyle in 2000 and 10, so we really didn't have any way to turn to or any guidance and we made a ton of mistakes and we broke a ton of rules. And, um, we would have separate room play, which means he would go into a room with a female and I would go into the room with the mail. We also were exclusive with a couple. And when your exclusive with a couple, now you're opening that door for that emotional connection. And ultimately that's what happened. Um, I found out that he was, um, seeing her, seeing this woman who was married to her has been outside of when we were all four together. And um, that's what ended our marriage. So I I encourage people, you're, you're in this to experience your fantasies together. You need to communicate. Sometimes you might want to go to an event and you might say that you are completely fine with full swap. That's having sex versus soft swap, which would just be oral and maybe in the middle. You look over and your husband is pounding the shit out of some girl and you just, your heart breaks. I tell my, you know, I tell my, my my clients that are, you know, going through lifestyle coaching with me, you are entitled to stay. I am so sorry, but we have to stop and you stop the sex and you leave. You apologize and you leave. You've got to communicate with your partner or you're going to go down a slippery slope. But if you're about to come and we got to stop you, that's another argument on the way home, give me well, you know, full of those fans and Salvador you go. I mean, I always talk about a really funny experience I had with a boyfriend of mine who was not in the lifestyle and he entered it with me and we had not played with another couple for like the first year and a half of our relationship to establish a connection with each other. And we were at an event one night and not not one of my events in las Vegas and we met a couple. They were cool, we went back to the room, we were on the same same room but separate beds. And I just remember that within like a minute of starting to play, she made this like screaming orgasm sound and then she was like, I love you too. My boyfriend and her husband looked at me and he goes, did you hear that? And I'm like, yeah, what do we do? And he's like, ignore it And I'm like, okay. Anyways, we went off to do our thing for 45 minutes, stopped, looked over and they were watching us and I said to my boyfriend, I started, you done. And he goes, we never started. So that was a really good learning experience for me that he should have said, you know, hey honey, we need to go like something's not right here. And we found out later that that was a complete fake screaming orgasm of hers just to piss her husband off and my boyfriend did not even touch her, didn't even put a hand on her. So it was interesting, it was one of my first times of um being in that kind of experience where I said to my boyfriend in future, you stopped me and he said, well you were having fun, and I said, it doesn't matter, it doesn't matter, we're in this together. So that's another lesson learned. How many crazy ask people do you encounter like that? Like, really? I I I I think of maybe the possibility I envisioned someone getting ahold to someone else and, you know, stalking them or or some crazy shit like that, how many, how many crazy stories? Maybe not in your group, but crazy as this is the, this is the interesting part of being in the lifestyle and um being in the adult industry is that the crazies that I've dealt with in my life and all the stories in my book about, you know, the backstabbing and the lack of morals have all come from my regular, what we would call we call it vanilla friends. So not adult lifestyle and not adult industry or lifestyle. I mean, of course I've seen crazy everywhere. We're always going to see crazy. But um you know, reading, reading my book, you know, people realize that, wow my connections in the, in the lifestyle are lifelong friendship connections and my connections in the adult industry, or lifelong friendship connections. And then people that I've known since the seventh grade are the ones that will turn around and stab their backs in a heartbeat or stabbed.