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Matchmakers Lauren Rosenberg and Jaydi Samuels Kuba suggest that it's important to not shift your dating style too much from what it once was just because the world has flipped upside down from the coronavirus.
Publish Date: Feb 16, 2021
Matchmakers Lauren Rosenberg and Jaydi Samuels Kuba suggest that it's important to not shift your dating style too much from what it once was just because the world has flipped upside down from the coronavirus. If you're not totally ready to get back into the dating world, it's okay to dive in at your own pace. But guys, let it be known, there need to be more of you online dating!
But what can we sort of leave people with? What kind of what kind of tips Based on what you guys have been hearing. So one thing you guys mentioned, Waas maybe pace it like, don't be so intense about talking to somebody through the day all day, right away. Yeah. Try to keep the same piece that you normally would. If you are someone that waits a day or two days, Thio reach out after a date. It's not necessarily the move that I would suggest. But if that's your style, do that. You just like rolling her. I just like fuck that. Yeah, I think, especially when they know you're not doing anything. I'm like what? Okay, Cool e do you think is just You can maintain your typical personality and dating style, you know? Try not Thio rush it more than you normally would. This is the same life, you know that it was before the circumstances are a little different. But you're the same person. They're the same person. But I do hope that those people who are feeling more inspired let's say they're like a three day rule kind of guy and they wait three days, you know, toe reach out after a date and they're feeling like, Oh, my God, I want to reach out to her sooner now that they have more time. Maybe this is a great lesson for them when this is all over. Like, Hey, you know, that shouldn't change now that this is over. Like, don't worry so much about waiting. You know, go ahead and reach out. And, um, it'll be interesting to see how much people learn about themselves and their dating style and how much is applied after this is all over the pay attention to how you're feeling. Yeah, I think I think that's the sorry, Lauren. Good. I would also encourage guys to dive into the virtual dating because from what I'm hearing on the APS, guys aren't doing it. Even if these air cash full daters that are being meted out. I mean, how are you going, Thio? Be physically satisfied when this is all over, if you have nothing lined up. So from what I heard, Guy should be taking more advantage of this, so I would just I would get in there because the longer the social distancing is happening, the more. It's going to becoming the norm and the more they're going to be left out. So I would encourage guys toe have at it. The girls are looking for you. Yeah, and the men that we've been working with during this virtual quarantine time they've been having as much success is the women have. So it Z, I don't know Lauren, What would you say? Like we have not really noticed in terms of success. Whether, like the women, is a whole who we've been working with her, the men as a whole have been feeling more satisfied. It seems really, really balanced in terms of how much everyone's getting out of it. And so yeah, like, Lauren said, even, you know, we we personally only work with people who are taking it more seriously in terms of what they're searching for. But in general, like even if you are a more casual dater like Lauren said, go on hinge, go on tinder. However, you would normally need someone you know when this is all over. If you have no one, you've been talking Thio, then it's going to take you a long time, just sort of pulled up those those connections to even get to a place where you'll start meeting someone in person afterwards,