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Toxicity

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stay or walk away. That was what we did last year, sometime last year and we did talk about it a little bit this year and today we are revisiting it again. And it just so happened. It just so happened that a lot of drama has been going on in relationships this week. My my heart goes up to them but a lot of drama has been going on this week. One of the dramas was I will beloved Innocent E. D. B. A. Which we all know has to face, he is the father of seven, has two baby mamas, they have five kids and his lovely wife, Anne mccauley. And there was a big, big drama which which they brought to our attention this week and also our beloved actress, the King herself, Toronto Dickie, the ex wife of Churchill and as the last week the ex wife of Pope agreed or the ex girlfriend of papa grip. Rather my heart goes out to each and every person and I was stuck there talking about toxic relationships or no, I won't say toxic relationships, but I will say toxic person, me personally, my opinion. You see that guy, okay, agree. His name gets me like every single time how do you go from being madly madly in love with someone less than a month to dragging them out on social media and insulting and really clean them online. How does that happen? You see this lofty name, It scares me honestly. How how did it go from that to this then same thing happens with anne McColl and innocence idea where did you where did it go wrong? And guys? The truth is this the truth is this do not do not bring your relationship to social media if you still want to say, well, it's because the truth is people like you and either do not know the genesis and the revolution, we are going to talk, we are going to add fire to smoke and it's going to be chaotic. It doesn't it doesn't I can't think of a problem that has actually been brought to social media. That's actually that was actually solved. So you bring in your relationship if it's the matters to you, you bring in your relationship to social media with hopes of I don't know, chasing clouds are actually solving it. It doesn't it just doesn't work to me honesty. But I do hope I do hope they sort out the whole drama because actually everybody deserves peace in their relationship. Be strong Guys, be strong. Which brings us to our relationship talk today. Mr wisdom. Good evening. Thank you for joining me couture. Good evening. Thank you so very much for joining in. Yeah, hopefully will join us in a bit. We are going to kick start right now. So, toxic relationships. It's my what I have noticed, it's not john place friendship. So it's not your lover's let me put it like that. You can have a toxic relationship with your family. You can have a toxic relationship with your friends. You can have a toxic relationship with your employee or employee. You can't even have a toxic relationship with your guests that is running late. But apparently I don't have a toxic relationship with my guest. Hello. Hi, hi, More oysters. I'm good. Thank you for joining us. Please introduce yourself to the house. All right. Um My name is Evans or Evans. However way you would like to pronounce it. Yeah. So, uh yeah, Events. Okay, Evans nice to meet you. So, as I said, yes, I mentioned earlier, this topic was chosen because one of my audience act starts to dive into it and what we did last year, Okay. For those of us that hasn't listened to that episode, Events. What do you think? What is your opinion about toxic relationships? Um first of all, a fan of being a piece, you know what doesn't give me peace uh from the east, toxic If you don't have peace wherever I am, you know, I I always come back, but not without a fight. Like, you know, it's good to make things work, you know, to try to make it till where then when it really affects you affected mine, it stops your mental health. Then I think at that point you meet, you know, to save what's left and then just take it back, Bring okay, if it stops your mental health, if it stops your peace of mind, It is toxic. That is beautiful. At the end of the three times, I think the three times we have spoken about toxic relationships. We haven't had a guy, I haven't had a guy on the show. Which which is actually the reason I'm excited because there are so many things I want to know from the people dishing out the breakfast. So so grab on, hold on, hold on to your seat bells. When we did the last uh last talk on toxic relationships, it was basically how do we heal or do you stay in the relationship and fix it? Or do you walk away? But the truth is this I missed Or I didn't talk about the the origin on what makes the relationship toxic? How does it get there? Because you don't fall in love with a toxic person. That is the truth. You do not fall in love with a toxic person. So, what makes the relationship over time for toxic? How can I identify that? This is a toxic relationship. Mhm All right. Um firstly, I would say uh yeah, mm like level said in a song in evil language he said um evidence. You're not Oh darling darling, you know, in the beginning, it's all beautiful. You know, it's all beautiful. Once you get sweet it is to the movies together, across like that. And assam goes on reality sets in now from the beginning from the onset, there are certain things that happened in the relationship continue to see that guy was a girl you know, comfortable with. But then you tend to ignore those things now when does first you know the 1st 7th Heaven, you know in the relationship over then reality sets in, that's when we begin to see who she does not always should be handled very well. Oh She had a 1000 good morning. Oh he always France when I tell a joke, smokes like that before, you know, it start noticing little things, you know what we heard as values. I think that we should always in complex from the beginning of relationships how exactly you feel about a person. But several things aside to tell you how well you love listen sometimes it might not be, you know, factual ation and sometimes you know, as we as human beings, you know, we we we love from different hours and we have things we look out for. We have things that are thought of, but some of us it doesn't, you know, as you know, we tend to forget about certain things, you know, we tend to like look outward, forget about the things that are our values, the things we see and the things we consider for the ideal women or the ideal men would like to be with. How about these things, you know, some of us were not like people have talked a lot, you know, we don't like people that are uh have spoken, but then because I told things you don't know, okay I want you know in the end you you know along the line you find out something that only off. But because you are not being considered from the beginning and you tend to just ignore these things And with time those things you don't ignore. Let's start to put you off. That's where the toxicity begins when they start to put you off. Some people they go on with it without a fight. Like for them men when they look at it, they don't speak. They don't talk about those things. But then for me um relationship to start from the token stage, talk about everything. We talk about the future. Yeah, it's not it's not really talk about talk about what you want to talk about. The different talk about your talk about the things you love to talk about. The things you wouldn't like to see if you can talk about how you would like to be treated. You know, talk about those things talk about a lot of things depending on where your relationship is to talk about these things. These are the things that will work if you clear about what you would want to see or how you would want your relationship to be the
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