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For three years, Stoya and Rich Juzwiak have been giving advice to Slate readers on all things sex—mismatched libidos, secret desires, (bad) sexting, surprising fetishes, and assorted other wild things. Now they're joining forces to answer their most jaw-dropping questions yet, sometimes with the help of special guests. Whatever you want to know about sex—truly, whatever—they'll tell you how to do it. Continue Reading >>
For three years, Stoya and Rich Juzwiak have been giving advice to Slate readers on all things sex—mismatched libidos, secret desires, (bad) sexting, surprising fetishes, and assorted other wild things. Now they're joining forces to answer their most jaw-dropping questions yet, sometimes with the help of special guests. Whatever you want to know about sex—truly, whatever—they'll tell you how to do it. << Show Less
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My Boyfriend Loves Dirty Talk. But He Doesn’t Say the One Thing I Want. This week, Stoya and Rich advise a letter writer whose partner isn’t saying the right things, and they discuss a letter from a woman who can’t bear to touch herself.Mentioned in this episode:My New Gender Workbook by Kate Bornstein***Continue following Rich and Stoya and their How to Do It column on Slate here.Production by Chau Tu. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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My Boyfriend Loves Dirty Talk. But He Doesn’t Say the One Thing I Want. This week, Stoya and Rich advise a letter writer whose partner isn’t saying the right things, and they discuss a letter from a woman who can’t bear to touch herself.Mentioned in this episode:My New Gender Workbook by Kate Bornstein***Continue following Rich and Stoya and their How to Do It column on Slate here.Production by Chau Tu. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
My Husband Went on a Date With His Ex-Girlfriend Stoya and Rich discuss a letter from a woman whose experiment with “ethical non-monogamy” isn’t going the way she expected.***Read the How to Do It column on Slate here. If you’re in need of sex advice from Stoya and Rich, write in here or leave a voicemail at ‪(347) 640-4025 and we may use it on the show. Remember, it’s anonymous—and nothing is too embarrassing!Production by Chau Tu. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
No One Tells You What Happens When You’re Suddenly a Hot Guy This week, Stoya and Rich discuss a letter from a man whose attractiveness is getting in the way of his life and work.***Read the How to Do It column on Slate here. If you’re in need of sex advice from Stoya and Rich, write in here or leave a voicemail at ‪(347) 640-4025 and we may use it on the show. Remember, it’s anonymous—and nothing is too embarrassing!Production by Chau Tu. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
I’m Overwhelmed by My Boyfriend’s Sexual Demands This week, Stoya and Rich advise a letter writer who is overwhelmed by her partner’s daily sexual needs, and they discuss a letter from a man who wonders if his post-sex feelings are normal.***Read the How to Do It column on Slate here. If you’re in need of sex advice from Stoya and Rich, write in here or leave a voicemail at ‪(347) 640-4025 and we may use it on the show. Remember, it’s anonymous—and nothing is too embarrassing!Production by Chau Tu. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
The One Thing My Partner Desires in Bed Makes Me Gag This week, Stoya and Rich advise a letter writer who wonders what they can do to have a better experience giving oral sex, and they discuss a letter from a woman looking for advice on how to explain her specific dating needs. Mentioned in this episode:Breath: The New Science of a Lost Art by James Nestor***Read the How to Do It column on Slate here. If you’re in need of sex advice from Stoya and Rich, write in here or leave a voicemail at ‪(347) 640-4025 and we may use it on the show. Remember, it’s anonymous—and nothing is too embarrassing!Production by Chau Tu. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
I’m a Woman With a Very Male Sex Problem This week, Stoya and Rich advise a woman whose partner complains that she orgasms too quickly, and they discuss a letter from a woman who’s puzzled by why her boyfriend doesn’t want to have sex very often.Mentioned in this episode:So Tell Me About the Last Time You Had Sex by Ian Kerner***Slate Plus members get another episode of the How to Do It podcast every Monday. Sign up for Slate Plus now.Read the How to Do It column on Slate here. If you’re in need of sex advice from Stoya and Rich, write in here or leave a voicemail at ‪(347) 640-4025 and we may use it on the show. Remember, it’s anonymous—and nothing is too embarrassing!Production by Chau Tu. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
The Simple Way to Have Better Sex After Marriage This week, Stoya and Rich answer a letter for Valentine’s Day from a man who’s looking for tips on how to spice up his sex life with his wife, and they discuss a letter from a man who’s wondering how to involve himself with his wife’s other relationship.Mentioned in this episode:Curious Pleasures by The Reverend Dr Eramus St Jude Croom DD***Slate Plus members get another episode of the How to Do It podcast every Monday. Sign up for Slate Plus now for $25 off.Read the How to Do It column on Slate here. If you’re in need of sex advice from Stoya and Rich, write in here or leave a voicemail at ‪(347) 640-4025 and we may use it on the show. Remember, it’s anonymous—and nothing is too embarrassing!Production by Chau Tu. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
I (Unfortunately) Know What My Husband Has Been Doing in Garage This week, Stoya and Rich answer a letter from a woman who’s worried about her husband’s secret habit, and offer suggestions for oral sex to a letter writer who has a unique problem. Mentioned in the episode:Sex, God, and the Conservative Church by Tina Schermer SellersIs Porn Addiction a Real Thing?Moody Bitches by Julie Holland“TMJ and Intimacy” by S. Michael PlautSlate Plus members get another episode of the How to Do It podcast every Monday. Sign up for Slate Plus now and get $25 off.Read the How to Do It column on Slate here. If you’re in need of sex advice from Stoya and Rich, write in here or leave a voicemail at ‪(347) 640-4025 and we may use it on the show. Remember, it’s anonymous—and nothing is too embarrassing!Production by Chau Tu. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
I’ve Only Just Discovered What Really Turns Me On. But What Is This Even Called? This week, Stoya and Rich answer a letter from a man who’s just made a new sexual discovery about himself. Then they hear from a woman who’s feeling judged for her boundaries.Guest: Ryan ScoatsMentioned in the episode:‘I don’t mind watching him cum’: Heterosexual men, threesomes, and the erosion of the one-time rule of homosexuality.Understanding Threesomes by Ryan Scoats***Slate Plus members get another episode of the How to Do It podcast every Monday. Sign up for Slate Plus now for just $1.Read the How to Do It column on Slate here. If you’re in need of sex advice from Stoya and Rich, write in here or leave a voicemail at ‪(347) 640-4025 and we may use it on the show. Remember, it’s anonymous—and nothing is too embarrassing!Production by Chau Tu. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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