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More Impact | Stronger Relationships | Better SexYour pragmatic guide to relationships, sex, and purpose in the 21st century Featuring Rob Kandell as your host/coach/best-friend-you-never-knew-you-had, Tuff Love is a grab-bag of rants, listener Q&A’s, and captivating interviews with experts on everything from money-management to intimate touching. Continue Reading >>
More Impact | Stronger Relationships | Better SexYour pragmatic guide to relationships, sex, and purpose in the 21st century Featuring Rob Kandell as your host/coach/best-friend-you-never-knew-you-had, Tuff Love is a grab-bag of rants, listener Q&A’s, and captivating interviews with experts on everything from money-management to intimate touching. << Show Less
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258: Rob Rant: Thanks, I Had A Good Time In this week&#8217;s episode, Rob rants about his experience of the Tuff Love Podcast and the journey it has involved. Rob shares a humorous and poignant story involving bed bugs from his time at One Taste, explores his relationship with his own ego and how it has impacted his work, and how he has developed faith in letting go of things in life in order to allow new chapters to begin.
3:54 &#8211; I had a good time
7:50 &#8211; A space to express love
10:00 &#8211; Committing to changing
12:51 &#8211; A story about bedbugs
17:38 &#8211; Ego guiding work
20:32 &#8211; Surfing the wave of Covid-19
22:32 &#8211; Rob’s father wound
25:21 &#8211; Ending the podcast
26:46 &#8211; Letting go and having faith
28:35 &#8211; Having space to reflect
29:07 &#8211; Comments from listeners
34:44 &#8211; Thank you&#8217;s
Don&#8217;t forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It&#8217;s your easy-to-understand at-home guide to Robert’s living unHidden Framework. Get your copy today by visiting www.robertkandell.com/order
OR, grab your free audio section of the book if you want to take it for a spin before you buy. And we promise this is NOT like movie trailers where they grab all the best pieces. Unhidden is pure relationship gold https://robertkandell.com/freeaudio
Get More of Robert at:
www.RobertKandell.com
As well as:
www.youtube.com/channel/UCA4BLzufNXxgKGUsLVDTnlQ
Follows us at:
www.facebook.com/robert.kandell
www.instagram.com/robert.kandell/
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258: Rob Rant: Thanks, I Had A Good Time In this week&#8217;s episode, Rob rants about his experience of the Tuff Love Podcast and the journey it has involved. Rob shares a humorous and poignant story involving bed bugs from his time at One Taste, explores his relationship with his own ego and how it has impacted his work, and how he has developed faith in letting go of things in life in order to allow new chapters to begin.
3:54 &#8211; I had a good time
7:50 &#8211; A space to express love
10:00 &#8211; Committing to changing
12:51 &#8211; A story about bedbugs
17:38 &#8211; Ego guiding work
20:32 &#8211; Surfing the wave of Covid-19
22:32 &#8211; Rob’s father wound
25:21 &#8211; Ending the podcast
26:46 &#8211; Letting go and having faith
28:35 &#8211; Having space to reflect
29:07 &#8211; Comments from listeners
34:44 &#8211; Thank you&#8217;s
Don&#8217;t forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It&#8217;s your easy-to-understand at-home guide to Robert’s living unHidden Framework. Get your copy today by visiting www.robertkandell.com/order
OR, grab your free audio section of the book if you want to take it for a spin before you buy. And we promise this is NOT like movie trailers where they grab all the best pieces. Unhidden is pure relationship gold https://robertkandell.com/freeaudio
Get More of Robert at:
www.RobertKandell.com
As well as:
www.youtube.com/channel/UCA4BLzufNXxgKGUsLVDTnlQ
Follows us at:
www.facebook.com/robert.kandell
www.instagram.com/robert.kandell/
Join the living unhidden Facebook group
www.facebook.com/groups/unhidden/
257: Stopping Corrupted Love with Vanya Silverten Vanya Silverten works internationally as an intuitive energy healer and teacher. With clients and students from over 50 countries, she has a passion to help individuals transform all aspects of their lives. Her greatest joy is to teach people the skills of healing and intuition so that they can master their own lives. Vanya believes healing is an art, and so has refined her gifted intuition through the experience of treating, reading and teaching 10,000+ people &#8211; from children to royalty.
Vanya is a Master Theta Healer and has taught 150+ courses in six different countries. She has developed the energetic understanding of how the body, mind and soul function through her extensive training and experience. She passes this knowledge on by teaching and qualifying students to become practitioners of Theta Healing®
Vanya is a qualified Nutritional Therapist. She has studied and worked extensively with herbs, vitamins, homeopathy and Australian Bush Flower Essences. Vanya is experienced at helping her clients overcome food allergies, hormonal and nervous problems.
In 2015, Vanya became a mother to a beautiful daughter. This life-changing experience has deepened her appreciation of the female body temple and it’s potential to reach heightened states of sensual enlightenment. She shares these teachings in her women’s workshops, retreats and online courses.
1:49 &#8211; How corrupted love affected Vanya
5:27 &#8211; Understanding and transforming our stories
8:26 &#8211; Letting go of identities
10:38 &#8211; Techniques to help someone let go of their stories
14:04 &#8211; How she works with people
16:36 &#8211; How she started reading energy
19:44 &#8211; Theta healing
21:39 &#8211; Changes in Women’s sexuality
24:16 &#8211; Techniques for keeping a relationship intimate
28:15 &#8211; Understanding how our family lineage impacts us
Find Vanya at:
www.VanyaSilverten.com
As well as her Free Courses:
courses.vanyasilverten.com/collections?category=free
Her book “Sacred Revolution: A Woman&#8217;s Path to Love, Power &amp; Sensual Enlightenment”
www.amazon.com/Sacred-Revolution-Womans-Sensual-Enlightenment/dp/198224352X
And her Instagram:
www.Instagram.com/VanyaSilverten
Don&#8217;t forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It&#8217;s your easy-to-understand at-home guide to Robert’s living unHidden Framework. Get your copy today by visiting www.robertkandell.com/order
OR, grab your free audio section of the book if you want to take it for a spin before you buy. And we promise this is NOT like movie trailers where they grab all the best pieces. Unhidden is pure relationship gold https://robertkandell.com/freeaudio
Get More of Robert at:
www.RobertKandell.com
As well as:
www.youtube.com/channel/UCA4BLzufNXxgKGUsLVDTnlQ
Follows us at:
www.facebook.com/robert.kandell
www.instagram.com/robert.kandell/
Join the living unhidden Facebook group
www.facebook.com/groups/unhidden/
256: Myths of Age and Romance with Violent Lange Violet Lange is a love, dating, and relationship mentor who helps spiritual, successful women date like a Queen and feel Fabulously Feminine along the way. Violet has her MBA from Harvard, training from Coach Training Alliance, and is a 500 hour registered yoga teacher and Reiki Master. She is passionate about empowered dating, and lasting loving relationships as building blocks of a healthy society and fulfilling life. Violet recently became a mama to a spunky, sweet daughter named Ruby.
1:42 &#8211; Violet’s background
5:19 &#8211; How she helps women find fulfilling relationships
7:31 &#8211; Using feelings as a barometer of relationship success
10:24 &#8211; Helping women connect with their desires
12:42 &#8211; How long does it take?
15:09 &#8211; Being okay with being single
16:28 &#8211; Disproving the myth of “Men aren’t interested in women my age”
19:29 &#8211; Disproving the myth of “There are no good men out there”
20:54 &#8211; Recommended dating apps
22:51 &#8211; Tips for using dating apps
24:05 &#8211; Continuing exploring “There are no good men out there”
27:05 &#8211; Disproving the myth of “I have too much baggage”
29:33 &#8211; Sexuality over 50
Find Violet at:
VioletLange.com/Talk
As well as Facebook:
www.facebook.com/groups/FreeYourFeminine/
Instagram:
www.instagram.com/VioletLoveLange
Don&#8217;t forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It&#8217;s your easy-to-understand at-home guide to Robert’s living unHidden Framework. Get your copy today by visiting www.robertkandell.com/order
OR, grab your free audio section of the book if you want to take it for a spin before you buy. And we promise this is NOT like movie trailers where they grab all the best pieces. Unhidden is pure relationship gold https://robertkandell.com/freeaudio
Get More of Robert at:
www.RobertKandell.com
As well as:
www.youtube.com/channel/UCA4BLzufNXxgKGUsLVDTnlQ
Follows us at:
www.facebook.com/robert.kandell
www.instagram.com/robert.kandell/
Join the living unhidden Facebook group
www.facebook.com/groups/unhidden/
255: Xponential Intelligence with Mas Sajady Mas Sajady is a world renowned consciousness programmer who, through his unique techniques and meditations, shifts people’s lives to an evolved and advanced frequency level that enables them to achieve success, fulfillment, and happiness from a natural and balanced state.
From a very young age, Mas showed signs of higher intuition, and after his second near death experience he acquired highly advanced capabilities for quantum frequency programming. His journey to discover the true meaning of this newfound ability led to his own personal breakthroughs, giving him a new effortless, happy, and fulfilling life. This found knowledge enlightened him with the limitless possibilities in human potential. Today, Mas fulfills his purpose by helping others reprogram and elevate their frequency, to activate their inner force and experience life from a place of confidence, stability, significance, and abundance.
As the founder of Xponential Intelligence, Mas facilitates rapid changes through quantum reprogramming, which eliminate old dynamic energy partners. During sessions with Mas, regardless of whether you share your problems with him or not, he will discover and eliminate what has obstructed your life in the past.
Mas has counseled tens of thousands of people around the world and has worked with business leaders, influencers, professional athletes, celebrities, royal families, and Fortune 500 executives from companies such as Capital Records, Starbucks, Facebook, Fox, Microsoft, FedEx, and many more. As a philanthropist, Mas donates his time to assist schools, hospitals, special needs organizations, and low income communities.
In his spare time, Mas enjoys time with his family, travel, adventures, and various philanthropic activities that elevate the human consciousness.
2:24 &#8211; What is Xponential Intelligence?
9:14 &#8211; Generating frequencies
17:19 &#8211; The limitations of modern mindfulness practices
19:32 &#8211; Is Xponential Intelligence God?
22:16 &#8211; Connecting to one’s source and love
27:21 &#8211; Gender reversals
35:12 &#8211; Questions from Facebook
38:49 &#8211; Focusing on driving change externally versus internally
41:44 &#8211; Details of Das’ Sunday Metahealing sessions
Find Mas Sajady at:
https://mas-sajady.com
As well as Instagram:
www.instagram.com/Mas_Sajady
Don&#8217;t forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It&#8217;s your easy-to-understand at-home guide to Robert’s living unHidden Framework. Get your copy today by visiting www.robertkandell.com/order
OR, grab your free audio section of the book if you want to take it for a spin before you buy. And we promise this is NOT like movie trailers where they grab all the best pieces. Unhidden is pure relationship gold https://robertkandell.com/freeaudio
Get More of Robert at:
www.RobertKandell.com
As well as:
www.youtube.com/channel/UCA4BLzufNXxgKGUsLVDTnlQ
Follows us at:
www.facebook.com/robert.kandell
www.instagram.com/robert.kandell/
Join the living unhidden Facebook group
www.facebook.com/groups/unhidden/
254: Men in the Time of Coronavirus with Adam Gilad Adam Gilad is an independent educator, writer and life adventurer, devoted to creating learning programs, films, books and live workshops that awaken, delight, provoke, connect and inspire. The goal of each of his programs and trainings: for each of us to love more fully, laugh more deeply, feel more sensually and live our gifts to awaken ourselves and others into deep engagement and awakening to every precious passing moment of our lives.
2:30 &#8211; Adam’s experience of 2020 so far
9:19 &#8211; The impact on children
11:23 &#8211; Men in Coronavirus
16:35 &#8211; A call for balance, Black Lives Matter, and the rise of listening
25:18 &#8211; Being in relationships with differences
29:51 &#8211; The Bold Life Brotherhood
Find Adam at:
www.TheBoldLifeBrotherhood.com
As well as:
Instagram:
www.instagram.com/RealAdamGilad
And Email:
IAmAdamGilad@gmail.com
Don&#8217;t forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It&#8217;s your easy-to-understand at-home guide to Robert’s living unHidden Framework. Get your copy today by visiting www.robertkandell.com/order
OR, grab your free audio section of the book if you want to take it for a spin before you buy. And we promise this is NOT like movie trailers where they grab all the best pieces. Unhidden is pure relationship gold https://robertkandell.com/freeaudio
Get More of Robert at:
www.RobertKandell.com
As well as:
www.youtube.com/channel/UCA4BLzufNXxgKGUsLVDTnlQ
Follows us at:
www.facebook.com/robert.kandell
www.instagram.com/robert.kandell/
Join the living unhidden Facebook group
www.facebook.com/groups/unhidden/
253: What It Means To Be A Woman Today with Anna Rova Femininity &amp; Feminine Embodiment Coach Anna Rova is on a mission to help successful women attract and keep masculine men. She runs a powerful group coaching program called &#8220;Claimed&#8221; that helps women embody their feminine essence fully and get into the best position to attract a partner that will consciously and eagerly play the masculine pole of the polarity spectrum
Writer, podcaster, yoga instructor, and location-independent entrepreneur, Anna is the founder of Girlskill – an online coaching company empowering women to connect to their femininity and understand men through various stories of women around the world and personal revelations.
Together with her husband, Anna has traveled the world being on the road full-time building her coaching practice, writing her personal blog, recording episodes on Girlskill Podcast, practicing yoga, and spreading love and positivity. In December 2018, Anna gave birth to her first child and is currently residing in Australia continuing to coach women all over the world.
2:09 &#8211; Anna’s work and an overview of three lies about female success
4:15 &#8211; Recent changes that have led to the current state of being for women
8:18 &#8211; Previous gender roles
12:13 &#8211; Men not stepping up to the level of empowered women
15:54 &#8211; Gender roles in media
22:48 &#8211; Evolutionary psychology
28:03 &#8211; Monogamy and men’s drive away from it
30:48 &#8211; Three lies about female success in-depth
31:17 &#8211; Lie 1: Women can and should do it all
35:01 &#8211; Lie 2: Feminine power is in independence and strength
37:17 &#8211; Lie 3: Femininity is weakness
Find Anna at:
Home

As well as her webinar on How to Start Attracting Committed Masculine Men by Releasing Control &amp; Letting Him Lead:
https://girlskill.com/webinar
And her Instagram:
www.instagram.com/annarova
Don&#8217;t forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It&#8217;s your easy-to-understand at-home guide to Robert’s living unHidden Framework. Get your copy today by visiting www.robertkandell.com/order
OR, grab your free audio section of the book if you want to take it for a spin before you buy. And we promise this is NOT like movie trailers where they grab all the best pieces. Unhidden is pure relationship gold https://robertkandell.com/freeaudio
Get More of Robert at:
www.RobertKandell.com
As well as:
www.youtube.com/channel/UCA4BLzufNXxgKGUsLVDTnlQ
Follows us at:
www.facebook.com/robert.kandell
www.instagram.com/robert.kandell/
Join the living unhidden Facebook group
www.facebook.com/groups/unhidden/
252: Rob Rant: It’s Okay Not To Know In this week&#8217;s episode, Rob rants about the large array of uncertainty across the world and in his own life during this time. Rob explores COVID, Black Lives Matter, the economic and political situation in the USA, as well as his relationship with his father and life partner. He outlines how while it’s okay not to know, it shouldn’t stop you: do the internal work to know yourself and all aspects of your being.
3:23 &#8211; My superpowers
6:37 &#8211; Things Rob doesn’t have certainty around
8:52 &#8211; Black Lives Matter
12:44 &#8211; The economic and political situation in the USA
15:07 &#8211; Rob’s dad’s death
18:25 &#8211; His relationship with Morgan
19:57 &#8211; Staying conscious
22:12 &#8211; Surrender versus acquiescence: know thyself
23:16 &#8211; Being okay with what is
Don&#8217;t forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It&#8217;s your easy-to-understand at-home guide to Robert’s living unHidden Framework. Get your copy today by visiting www.robertkandell.com/order
OR, grab your free audio section of the book if you want to take it for a spin before you buy. And we promise this is NOT like movie trailers where they grab all the best pieces. Unhidden is pure relationship gold https://robertkandell.com/freeaudio
Get More of Robert at:
www.RobertKandell.com
As well as:
www.youtube.com/channel/UCA4BLzufNXxgKGUsLVDTnlQ
Follows us at:
www.facebook.com/robert.kandell
www.instagram.com/robert.kandell/
Join the living unhidden Facebook group
www.facebook.com/groups/unhidden/
251: FLAUNT Yourself with Lora Cheadle Lora Cheadle is a transformational thought leader and media personality who empowers women to express themselves fully, find uninhibited joy, and gracefully take the lead in the dance of life despite any external circumstances. She is the author of the bestselling book FLAUNT! Drop Your Cover and Reveal Your Smart, Sexy, &amp; Spiritual Self that is available wherever books are sold. Listen to her podcast or find out more at www.loracheadle.com where you can download your free Bundle of JOY gift pack.
1:47 &#8211; Acknowledging the outcries following George Floyd’s death
5:20 &#8211; Who is Lora?
8:51 &#8211; Life choreographer
13:09 &#8211; Fears dictating one’s life
17:01 &#8211; Being curious about life’s difficulties
19:36 &#8211; Dealing with infidelity
22:13 &#8211; Working with Lora: FLAUNT
29:41 &#8211; Why “Finding Your Fetish”?
32:36 &#8211; Working towards Accepting Unconditionally
36:14 &#8211; Undoing false beliefs
Find Lora at:
LoraCheadle.com
Facebook:
www.facebook.com/LifeChoreographer/
Instagram:
www.instagram.com/LoraCheadle/
Her Bundle of Joy Gift Pack:
Bundle of Joy

As well as her FLAUNT Flock Facebook Group:
www.facebook.com/groups/FlauntFlock/
Don&#8217;t forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It&#8217;s your easy-to-understand at-home guide to Robert’s living unHidden Framework. Get your copy today by visiting www.robertkandell.com/order
OR, grab your free audio section of the book if you want to take it for a spin before you buy. And we promise this is NOT like movie trailers where they grab all the best pieces. Unhidden is pure relationship gold https://robertkandell.com/freeaudio
Get More of Robert at:
www.RobertKandell.com
As well as:
www.youtube.com/channel/UCA4BLzufNXxgKGUsLVDTnlQ
Follows us at:
www.facebook.com/robert.kandell
www.instagram.com/robert.kandell/
Join the living unhidden Facebook group
www.facebook.com/groups/unhidden/
250: The Power of Polarity in Relationships with Arielle Brown In this episode, Rob welcomes long-time friend and colleague Arielle Brown to discuss the premise for the workshop that they held on June 17th 2020.
Arielle describes the workshop as follows:
“The degree of power and influence we have in our life is directly related to the amount of sensation we can hold in our body. Similarly, the level of ability we have to create real, authentic connection in our lives is directly related to our ability to hold polarity within our body. To &#8220;hold polarity&#8221;, in my definition, means to be able to hold (at least) two perspectives, truths, or belief systems within our awareness that seem to DIRECTLY conflict with each other. The cultivation of holding polarity is a practice in personal mastery, because in a world that has taught us to believe that being &#8220;right&#8221; is what creates safety, allowing ourselves to consider and hold a perspective that directly challenges our belief systems is a great threat to our (Ego) identity. Robert Kandell and I have built much of our respective bodies of work around intimacy, sexuality, communication, and human relating, on the premise that true safety is based on our ability to be CONNECTED in our relationships, rather than being RIGHT.”
3:09 &#8211; The motivation for Rob and Arielle’s workshop
6:43 &#8211; Being honest with your partner and yourself
11:23 &#8211; Different speeds of evolution in relationships
13:36 &#8211; Doing inner work and how it affects relationships
16:48 &#8211; What is distortion?
17:56 &#8211; Jealousy and polarity
23:24 &#8211; Why did Rob start this work?
30:17 &#8211; What do men need?
32:53 &#8211; Women holding space for men
36:04 &#8211; The impact of shifts in relationships on sex
41:19 &#8211; Their workshop
To get a flavor of what was covered, check out these videos:
What Does it Mean When Something Is Polarizing?:



What does it mean when something is &quot;polarizing&quot;?
What does it mean when something is &quot;polarizing&quot;?
Posted by Arielle Brown on Tuesday, May 19, 2020

Polarity Workshop Teaser with Arielle &amp; Rob:



Tuff Love: A Teaser for Our Polarity Workshop for Couples w/ Arielle Brown
&lt;&lt;THE TEASER FOR THE JUNE-17th 2-HOUR WORKSHOP&gt;&gt;Arielle recently invited me to do a workshop with her around the concept of relationship, polarity, relationship, and communication. I said immediately, I&#039;m IN!The price is $48/person for 12 people. Benefit is that you&#039;ll be part of the course. In other words, interactive! Afterwards, we&#039;ll post the replay for the cost of an email address.TO REGISTER: SEE THE LINK BELOW IN THE COMMENTSSome questions that will be discussed:&gt;&gt; How do we navigate the dance of opposites in our romantic relationship when your desires and belief systems directly contradict your partner’s?&gt;&gt; How do you honor your inner boundaries while staying curious and receptive to opposing perspectives?COME JOIN US!&lt;teacher Bio&gt;Arielle Brown is a teacher of intimacy energetics and spiritual embodiment, with a focus on erotic intelligence and transparent communication skills. Through her private coaching work, group containers, and online courses, Arielle has cultivated a body of work addressing the increasing need for evolutionary approaches to intimacy, sexuality, and spirituality that facilitate power-WITH (vs. power-OVER) models of relating. Her work emphasizes shadow integration and the unification of polarities in service to self-actualization and somatic awakening.Robert Kandell known as “The Modern Mantor,” is an interpersonal communications and relationship expert, speaker, podcaster and author. His focus lies in navigating and educating the public around the modern man and his many nuances in the modern era. Kandell is the host of a podcast called TuffLove &#8211; Your Pragmatic guide to relationships, sex and purpose in the 21st century and author of an Amazon #1 Best Seller – unHIDDEN – A Book for Men and Those Confused By Them.
Posted by Robert Kandell on Thursday, May 28, 2020

Find Arielle at:
www.ArielleBrown.com
Don&#8217;t forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It&#8217;s your easy-to-
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